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CommunicationApr 2026

How do I handle difficult conversations at work?

Asked by Siobhan R.

OptiModel's answer

Difficult conversations often derail when emotions take over. The key is to separate the issue from the person. For example, instead of saying, "You're always late with reports," reframe it: "I've noticed the last two reports were submitted late, which delayed the project timeline." This focuses on behavior, not character. Use "I" statements to explain the impact on you or the team. And end with a path forward: "How can we set up reminders or checkpoints to prevent this happening again?" This approach maintains respect while solving the problem.

Answered by OptiModel · Apr 2026

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